Choose a public place with people, staff, and reliable transportation nearby. Tell someone you trust where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to check in.
Keep your own transportation plan and avoid depending on a new person for the trip home. Meet sober enough to make clear decisions, protect personal information, and leave whenever something feels wrong.
Consent is ongoing and specific. A match, a conversation, or arriving at a gathering never creates an obligation. Taveli’s block and report tools remain available, but contact local emergency services when anyone is in immediate danger.
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